My shrink works with a number of bariatric patients and has seen many people go through this process. Toward the end of yesterday’s session, I asked: “What issues do you see patients struggling with who regain weight? And by that I don’t mean that ‘they’re eating too much’. I’m really asking what’s going on inside them that leads them to regain?”
After thinking a moment, he said: “What I mostly see is that they’re struggling to find new reasons and new motivations to focus on their weight and fitness.
"After they hit their goal weights, many of the rewards they got while losing weight go away. They’re no longer motivated by seeing the scale move down. After a while, their family and friends get used to what they look like and stop commenting on their weight loss or weight. Even people who were their strongest supporters during the weight loss phase no longer offer supportive comments. And when this positive reinforcement disappears, that has a negative effect on the patients.
“So then they must find new goals and new motivations to maintain their weight and to be fit. And for some folks that’s not easy.”
So that's one shrink’s brief observations about the cause of WLS patients' weight regain. However, I’m sure that's not the end of our conversation.
P.S. I’m not at maintenance yet; I’ve got 16 pounds until goal. But when I get there I’m definitely giving hubby a list of positive statements he has to say to me every week.
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