I made the decision to "tell" about my surgery early on and for the most part everyone has been very supportive and positive. Well there is always that one person that just can't say a single nice thing. When she does talk to me it is negative or said in a sarcastic way. As most of you know I researched and ask questions before I had surgery. I found all the info I could in order to make an educated decision about my health and surgery. My co-worker had a gastric bypass surgery about 10 years ago and has not done well with it. She has gained all her weight back and then some. She has also had other issues she blames her failure on. I did not know her then. When she found out about my surgery she said I was making a mistake. I explained to her about the sleeve surgery and how it works. All she had to say was how you can always cheat with these surgeries. When I got back to work after surgery I was not eating right and losing nothing but water weight according to her. (I have been the model patient and done everything I was told to do) Apparently she is asking others about what I am eating for lunch. Today took the cake....."You know that you are going to lose all that hair in a couple of months and your going to have a bunch of saggy skin because you are losing to fast. You are only supposed to lose at the most 1/2 pound a day." Well that did it. I informed her that I was aware that I could lose some hair and that it would grow back and that according to my Doctors I am not losing to fast I am right on target. I hope she gets over what ever she is going through. I would tell her to buzz off but it would only make it weird for everyone there. Thanks for letting me vent ! I feel much better now.
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