Hope you don't mind me spilling my guts here but I don't know who else to turn to, to talk about this and it's really eating me up.
I'm scheduled for sleeve surgery in Mexico on November 5th. I've got all the money ready to go to pay for it. Then our diesel truck broke down. It's the only vehicle we have and we need our truck. A car wouldn't fit into our needs. Hubby called the diesel repair place and they suggested what it might be and estimated $5,500 to fix. We don't have that kind of spare change lying around so hubby borrowed the money from his mom. He (and I) hate borrowing from her because we're in our 50's and shouldn't need to do that and also because she read the riot act when he asked to borrow it. Keep in mind we NEVER borrow from her but his sister and brothers have. She does have the money by the way. Anyway... he borrowed $6,000 thinking of little things that might come up with it. Well, the service garage did the diagnostic checks on the truck and found several things wrong. They have to remove the cab to do all the repairs. Repairs will take almost 2 weeks and the bill just went up to $9,000!!!! Hubby and I are sick over the bill. We are both out of previous divorces and starting over in this relationship with mortgage costs and his child support payments still going on. Although we both have good jobs we just don't have a lot of spare cash.
Anyway... hubby says he will cash in all his vacation pay and 'hopefully' there will be enough to pay the extra $3,000. I'm feeling horrible. Hubby has been working his butt off at work and hasn't had a holiday in over 2 years. We had planned on going on a cruise for New Year's eve but we cancelled it because we couldn't come up with the money. Now hubby is going to cash in any vacation time he might get and that will mean it will be at least 3 years before he gets time off. He's working like a mad man right now and I'm getting worried for his health.
I'm going to spend $5,000 on a surgery (that I really know I need because the weight is really affecting my health as well), but I'm not feeling good about this. I'm thinking I should cancel everything and use the money to pay for the truck.
My dilemma... do I have the surgery even though I feel guilty about it or should I cancel it all and use the money to pay for the truck repairs so hubby can at least take some time off work? Any comments...PLEASE?
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