I've had depression since childhood. I've been on medication on and off, I really don't like to be medicated. I am 11 months post sleeve and very happy with my results. Reached my dr's goal weight, yay! I am not too far from my own. Personal goal. A few months (around may) ago my depression hit super hard. Normally I can climb back out with time without any outside help. Well, other than self diagnosing and prescribing with food like I did pre-op. This time without my old BFF (food) I feel like I am drowning and no matter how hard I try to reach the surface I keep being pulled under. It takes every ounce of energy to put a happy face on for my hubby and kids. I am exhausted and in actual physical pain. To make it worse I finally worked the nerve to mention how I was feeling to my husband, who doesn't believe in depression, and he took it personal. He flipped out, said I must not be happy with him if I feel like I need to be put on medication. He mentioned how he has been supportive of me having wls because I thought this would help me. Now, before anyone goes on a rampage about me kicking my husband to the curb, I have a great husband. He grew up in a different culture that doesn't believe in depression and like mental illnesses(?). Needless to say I felt stupid for sharing how I felt and have been in tears all morning. I knew wls was not going to make my depression go away. Heck I even knew that in some aspects it would be harder since I wouldn't be able to turn to food. But I'm wondering am I alone in this? Another thing I am struggling with is that everyone around me... My husband, parents, siblings, coworkers, friends, are telling me to stop losing weight. I still have not gotten to my goal. They tell me I am starting to look unhealthy, which they didn't tell me at 332 lbs btw. And one girl actually said my head was too big for my body so I need to stop where I am or I would look like Starr Jones (her words not mine). I do have a big head but still. This is discouraging. I am losing motivation. I don't want to lose motivation.
Help, please.
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