..and some things that they do tell you, but bears repeating
I went back to work 6 days after surgery, with no problems (though I'm an accountant, my work is 10 hours a day behind a computer monitor). Everyone heals differently, it's true.. but the radiologist that scanned us for leaks after surgery in Mexico told me she had the surgery 8 days prior! I find that work, movement, distraction, getting back to routine.. It all helped in my recovery.
I've lost +/- 120lbs in 10 months (I've been gaining and losing the same 6lbs for a month and a half now). I'm happy about this, of course, but I had already put in 2 years in the gym to lose 140lbs prior to the surgery.. I'm sort of kicking myself that I did the surgery instead of just keeping on with the gym to lose the last 120lbs. It would have taken me at least 2 years though, and patience is not a trait that I possess. That's not to say I didn't continue the gym, I definitely did, I was on the treadmill&elliptical 3 weeks after surgery, and started up with my trainer again after 5 weeks, lifting weights (no ab work), and was back to 100% strength and ability in the gym at about 10 weeks.
Though the BMI scale says that I am "overweight", I have been weight lifting for 3 years, I'm carrying a good bit of muscle. However, I have become gaunt a bit in my face, and I am bony in places. Due to problems with extra skin, I'm scheduled for a mommy makeover this coming week. I will have to have an arm lift and a leg lift in the foreseeable future. I may or may not have had the extra skin problems if I had continued my slow & steady weight loss. I guess it doesn't matter now, but I would have preferred to not look like the bride of frankenstein when this is all done and over with.
For me, the mirror/my eyes/my brain, just haven't kept up with my weight loss. I look in the mirror, and I see 460lb me. It is impossible to eyeball clothes anymore when shopping, I end up trying on things that are many sizes too big. It is impossible to eyeball space anymore either. For sure some of you know what I mean; it used to be necessary to constantly gauge where and when you would fit somewhere - in the backseat of a cab, in a booth in the restaurant, etc.
All of this is just quirky and/or minor frustrations of a new life.. I'm not complaining about them, just putting it out there.
However, there are 2 things that have happened that genuinely scare me.
One is that 10 months out, I am still losing hair by the handfuls. I've always had very thick hair, and it's always fallen out in large amounts, particularly during the changes in season from spring to summer and from fall to winter. But I have lost massive amounts of hair in the last 10 months.. I have maybe 60% of the hair I used to. Hoping/praying I don't lose any more.
The second is that I am never hungry.
EVER.
They said that happens for most people that have the surgery, something about the part of the stomach that produces some hunger hormone is gone. I never thought much about it, hunger wasn't my problem when I gained all the weight, I ate because I LIKED it. It was fun to eat an entire bag of chips instead of tuna salad for lunch. It made me feel less sad if I had an entire foot long from Subway at the end of a bad day. Being hungry had nothing to do with what, or the massive amounts that I ate. I can totally understand how some people struggle with alcohol abuse or other addictions after losing the food. I'm thankful and blessed that this didn't happen to me; I am a strong person in so many aspects of life, but when I find a crutch (such as food), I lean way too hard on it.
Back to the hunger thing. It is scary. It has happened where I will go an entire day without eating, and completely not realize it until I get in bed that night. On gym days, I'll realize it sooner, I'll get lightheaded and nauseated. Food has zero appeal anymore. It doesn't feel good to eat. It's uncomfortable even. There's no warning to the pending uncomfortable either, I go from not feeling anything in my tummy to one bite later being full to the point of pain. Now I know the amounts of certain foods that will get me to that point, but it means I'm eating the same thing every single day. 1/3 of a bagel is ok. If I go to 1/2.. pain. I've been just drinking my nutrition lately, it's just easier and less painful.
I order watery foods when I go out, lots of vegetable only salads, soup, etc., because its easy to eat them and eat what seems like an acceptable amount to whomever I'm out with, so I can avoid coming up with creative answers as to why I eat 3 bites only of a sandwich or steak.
For all of these reasons, I often regret my decision to get a sleeve. Though just as often, I'm thankful for it and that I was able to get it done.
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