EDIT: Added summary at the bottom for tl;dr (too long;didn't read) purposes.
So I'm going to a WLS Seminar on the 21st.
It is required as the first step in this particular hospital's process for WLS. I don't mind. Maybe I will learn something I don't know. The purpose they do this for is to make sure you understand all the types of surgeries and the associated risks and benefits.
That's great. I have no problem with that.
I read though that there are only 18 seats so you must register. I am already registered but kind of curious, if not paranoid. Why? Well, I've been lurking around here and posting every now and then and I realize that we are all pretty unique people.
My kind-of-irrational-pseudo-problem is that I am pretty young. 18 actually. Is that to say I haven't tried to fix my weight through diet and exercise? HECK NO! Trust me. I know these procedures are not an excuse to say "oh I just won't be hungry and I will eat less so I won't really have to exercise." No way, I get that I will be exercising. No problem. I am just worried that maybe people will look at me funny thinking I should wait and see of there is anything else that I can do about the problem. I know every year, despite my efforts, the scale never fails to raise 10 or 20 pounds. I am sitting at 240 pounds and 5 ft 6 in. I am a BMI of 38.7. If I wait, I will hit 40 eventually and that wouldn't make me happy. I see this tool as both an aid to my current situation and a preventative measure for how big I could end up getting. So I know I have asked this once here somewhere. Is age an issue?
Now to vent about my life as a fat kid through a still fat new adult. I'll make it as short as I can.
Alright. So if I remember correctly, and how could I possibly forget all the years of being made fun of right, I have always been the fat kid. It didnt help that I grew up with a bunch of skinny boys in my neighborhood either. It was hard to keep up with them if we were riding bikes or playIng tag or something. At that time I was in elementary school. Involved in Gymnastics and Soccer. Boy, you probably don't know how embarrassing it is to be the fat kid in a leotard (maybe you do). I eventually quit gymnastics because I couldn't make friends. During the days in gym where we ran a half mile or full i was always the kid who was last or second to last but still threw up at the end. So then I still kept playing soccer. I could never be forward. I was always mid-field or defensive wing. I played defense like a boss! I still love soccer to this day, but I really can't run like that anymore. It's awfully painful on my chest. Back then though by the end of my elementary years if I recall correctly I was probably 140 pounds give or take a little --just a guess. I played soccer from grades 2-7. 5 years. It was great. We came in first every year. So by 8th grade my extracurricular focus is turning into academic focus with all of the advanced classes and what not. I am still going outside and riding bikes and stuff, just not as often I guess. I had seen the doctor and at this point I was like 180 pounds. He told me I needed to diet so I did. I lost some, gained some, stalled, lost, gained all back. It sucked. I haven't really seen him but maybe one more time since but if he were to scold me again, I might cry which is embarrassing but when I feel humiliated that's what I do. Always have. Anyway, all the way up to this point I was made fun of. Academics were the only thing I had going for me. I made a few semi-close friends then. The summer after 8th grade I did Marching Band. We are one of the top marching bands around here so we do some pretty rough practices. There is conditioning and basics week before you actually start marching for real or even think about bringing your instrument out. That means crap tons of running, more laps for you if you walk or talk back, and it gets better but it's rough all season long. About 7 hours of marching a day on average, excluding the weekend if the director thinks we don't need another extra practice. Band camp is even worse haha! Nothing like the stories you've heard. Wake up at 6 am, breakfast, march until 12, lunch, march until 6pm, dinner, march until 10 or 11 pm, sleep, repeat. Not to mention we have to walk up this incredibly steep and broad road on a hill for 20 minutes to get to dinner! It sounds like I'm complaining but the season gets better. During marching band season, you live for the games and competitions. That's what you do it for and I guess I just want to make it clear that it's not as cake and funtime as walking in a straight line in step. It takes a lot. It was hard on me. I remember losing weight my first year. Then all the other years I stayed the same or gained weight. I have no idea, don't ask me how! Maybe it was water cause I would be drinking tons of it daily! Who knows.
By sophomore year I was 210. I'm at the end of my senior year now and I am 240 pounds. I have tried to keep active and watch what I eat but I am on the loser's bench, and I don't mean the good one. ):
Sorry, that was actually really really long but I had a lot to explain and vent out. I was told by my friend just recently that I should just stop eating and exercise more. I told her I have done that but I need some more help, an aid or tool. I said it's harder than she thinks and she told me "no it's not! You would know of you tried!" and I asked her of she had ever been overweight like me... Then she said no but she did have a little tummy. Ugh.. It's hard to explain for some people. It isn't like I have been living a sedentary life style all my life. I have been pretty active. Something else needs to happen.
Based on some of my life details, do you think I am I heading in the right direction? I think the sleeve can help me become more healthy and make better choices. I am not THAT stubborn, okay? Haha. I will do what needs to be done both pre and post op. I have my mother at the very least to support me. My dad is being kind of minimally supportive but he's just as big if not bigger than me and I've seen him go full force on the elliptical! He went so hard that one of there staff members came over to make sure he wasn't giving himself a heart attack. He lost a little weight, but has gained it all back. I can see it is hard for him too. I think maybe he is just worried about risks for me though.
I want to be skinny! I want a boyfriend! I have never had a real-life physical boyfriend! If there is one girl in this school who is used to wanting what she can't have, it's me! I want to be healthy and feel healthy! I want guys to think I'm sexy! This is just one of the perks I think I will be enjoying after WLS. Not my primary reasoning for wanting it, but still a good reason.
Anyway, sorry. This looks like a book you're reading here. I hope someone is brave enough to read through all and respond haha. I just wanted to justify my reasoning. Is it good enough?
Thanks.
SUMMARY:I'm going to a WLS Seminar where my potential surgeon will be giving out information and there will be people who have already had the surgery to give feedback. There are 18 seats and I am worried that I will get funny looks because I am young (18 years). I am border-line candidate at 240 lbs and 5ft 6in. I have been the fat kid for my entire life, even though I was really pretty active. I have tried dieting and exercise. I have never had too many friends and I have never had a real-life physical boyfriend. I want to be healthy and look good. I do have some family support for this. I believe this surgery can aid me in becoming more healthy, and I believe that it can act as a preventative measure to combat me gaining even more weight. Do you think I am too young for this?
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