Passive aggressive judgment
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, 10-31-2018 at 09:01 PM (2356 Views)
So everyone I have talk to seems to be very supportive about my surgery. Yet I find that some people will say things that makes me wonder. It’s like they just hope that it doesn’t work out or that I have complications because I’m “taking the easy way out.” Comments like “I don’t know how you think you are going to do it” and “if you can’t be committed to exercise and diet how can you do this” or “ I hope you know what you are doing because this is not a simple surgery “ oh and how about “ oh my God , can’t you just stop eating?” People are assholes even the ones that love you. I have gotten a thick skin since making this decision because if I listen to all their bullshit I’ll get discouraged and maybe decide to not go through with it. Sometimes the people closest to us are the ones that break us down. So, I ignored the comments and just tell them I guess we will see.. I come on here and get the support I need and the inspiration from everyone who has changed their lives