Tell me what you really think
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, 09-12-2013 at 02:55 PM (1418 Views)
So last night my dad inadvertently hurt my feelings. Let me explain a little first. Ok my dad lives with my family so he is always around. Second, my dad used to be very overweight as well. He at one point weighed over 450 lbs. he lost a bit of weight with weight watchers and put it back on then had lap band surgery and lost almost all his weight. After a paniculectomy (however it is spelled), he now weighs 210 lbs. With that he should understand being overweight right? So last night he was talking on the phone to a good friend of the family and about the weight I've lost. So it starts out as a compliment how I look so kick better having lost 50 + lbs and he is so proud of me. He then continues to say how I was a butterball landmass and now I'm getting better. That I still have a long way to go but you can see such a difference in me. Really? Must you say that about me? I mean I know he didn't mean it to hurt my feelings, but it totally did. If my own dad thinks that of me, what do my friends or strangers think of me? I'm no where near my goal weight yet but I'm down 4 pants sizes and 5 shirt sizes. I still look at clothes 2-3 sizes too big out of habit. His just really knocked my self confidence back from the middle shelf on to the floor. Am I wrong for feeling this way? Please help!