Dumb question... How do you change it?

Now that I'm coming up on my year anniversary I am feeling great and looking great and starting to finally date again. My issue is as I'm sure you all have experienced is my body issues the saggy skin which isn't terribly that saggy butt saggy in comparison to what I'm used to before I gained all the weight. I feel extremely uncomfortable about my body, much less a man seen my body so how do you get around this? Anyone out there single that's dating? What has been your experience and do you feel ...

Day 6 post surgery. I really really want veggies or something. I have my dietary orders from my doc for the different stages, but gheez I am sick of boxed broth, jello, canned crm soups and so on. I feel like I want a salad so bad, and yes I know a salad is light years away for me. Wondering if i could juice some veggies and non- skined fruit. Did or does anyone feel like this? Too soon?

My surgery was Monday and since I have been home(Tuesday evening) have had
A hell of a time falling and staying asleep. I have tried my liquid hydrocodine before bed and I have tried it not at all, but to no a vale I am still waking up at midnight, 1 or this morning at 3. I just can't get comfortable. My pain level escalates since I can find a good side position to lay on. I know that this pain will soon pass but I am loosing it on lack of sleep and no naps. Any good ideas?

Did anyone else have theirs removed? I have never had pain from the stones but my doctore recommends I have it removed since I am on the table. Any issues? Does it matter?