Another thing I've been thinking about: I have two kids, a toddler and a 5 year old. My daughter is very aware of things, and she'll want to know why I'm going away and when I'll be back. She'll also notice post-op if I'm not feeling well and that I'm only drinking liquids. Do we tell her I'm going away for work and later tell her I am having tummy issues? That seems like the safest lie, but it's a lie. I'm just not sure how much she can process, and I don't want to scare her.
Also, following the surgery, I won't be able to eat normal foods for weeks, so what do we do about family meals, and again what do I tell my daughter? How have those of you with kids handled this?
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