Hi guys and girls!
My surgery is in 8 days and I am having a little trouble with muscle cramps and stuff because I am still trying to get the right balance with vitamins, minerals, protein, and water.
Due to me struggling with slight malnutrition, certain relatives (mostly my parents) are trying to tell me that this is proof that I don't need the surgery. My mom I can ignore since I don't live with her, but I do live with my mentally ill father who is dying of colon cancer.
He isn't bed ridden surprisingly and is still very consciously aware of what is going on around him. However, every once in a while he gets symptomatic and tries to discourage me by tempting me. Asking me to cook his meals and announcing whenever he eats something. He has even told me to cheat on my liquid diet and have a piece of chicken, etc. I have been determined to stay faithful to my eating plan and follow my doctors orders no matter what.
It is very hard, but I am hanging in there. I am thinking about my future and where I want to be as motivation. I am also thinking about how not many people get this opportunity because of insurance issues, etc. I have been so blessed these past few years and I refuse to let anyone rain on my parade.
Sorry for the long post. Anyway, has anyone else dealt with opposition the closer it got to their surgery from loved ones? If so, how did you cope?
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