I hope nobody gets offended by this but...

[cindylutz]

How long after surgery can we have sex? I forgot to ask my doctor.

[Valmin]

I had my surgery on 7.20.11 and we are back in business. LOL

[Valmin]

Sorry 6.20.11

[Stacies1]

My discharge papers from hospital said 3 weeks, my doctor said nothing that used any ab or core muscles for 6 weeks... So no wildness for a few weeks! But I would think it's all a comfort thing!

[ToDream]

We waited a month. Hubby was scared I'd tear some incisions!

[Valmin]

There's more than one way to skin a cat, lol. Who says you have to be laying down....I'm just saying! I waited 2 weeks and that was long enough for me.

[cindylutz]

thanks all!

[Minnie Mouse]

I treated it like when you have a baby. Usually it takes 6 weeks to heal, but 4 weeks was great for me. I have more elevated sensations since my surgery. I didn't want to say this, but now I feel bolder. Could it be possible????

[cindylutz]

well, i suppose if you feel better about yourself you will feel like being bolder so yes i would say its very possible!

[X_grl07]

My paperwork says two weeks but I think after your incisions are healed as long as you aren't in pain go for it!

[Minnie Mouse]

Holly....I love your party! They must be celebrating your surgery! LOL...Bonnie

[dociceit]

Ok guys point of view.

I was told two weeks.

Wasn't really UP to it at that point. It took another week. That's the guys side of it. I wanted to ask this to the guys but its its a macho thing.

I reckon when you feel ready, the mood is right and Dr say ok . Enjoy.

[Puppylovemommy]

Gosh I think we waited at least 6 weeks, but that's normal for us with a 6 year old in our bed and all!!! Be careful not to get preggers for at least a year...

[christopher88]

its been 3 weeks since mine and i have dont it once and i wasnt feeling to well after so i think it might be differnt for a guy and girl. so im going to be waiting for the 6 weeks period. i look at like lifting weights u cant use ur stomach muslces until six weeks.

[newjoanie]

My paperwork says when you want to do it ... do it.