It's been a long time since I've posted on here, and I guess I kind of feel like it's tim again. I don't recognize most of the names I see on the forums anymore, and that's kind of weird because when I was first researching and then had the surgery, this was my life-line and I pretty much knew everyone. It's kind of sad too, because I see people struggling with ALL the same things that I (and the rest of my cohorts at the time) did. Anyway, I digress..
I had my sleeve surgery on December 8, 2011. That's a day I will never forget because it changed my life. I had overblown expectations when I had my surgery.. namely that I would loose 100 pounds in 6 months, I would be at goal in a year, I would only ever eat a tiny amount, snacking on bad things would go away, and I would never be hungry again! Oh I know, I too kept telling myself "it's only a tool and I have to change me," and "My expectations are reasonable." For those of you who are currently sitting in a stall or who are feeling like you aren't going to ever make it, let me tell you that your expectations may not have been wholly realistic. Yes, some people do lose very very quickly, and actually I lost very quickly at first too- I dropped from 327 to 260ish in a matter of maybe four or five months. That's a HUGE amount of weight, and really it was kind of hard on my body, but it did get the jumpstart and provide motivaiton to keep going.
As of this morning I weigh 205. I'm only 5 pounds from onederland! Even two years ago, I certainly never thought I'd see that again. I am wearing a size 16, and when I started this I was in a 26 and kind of pushing maximum limits for a 26. I kept a pair of jeans from those days and put them on every now and then just to marvel at the difference. Oh.. also towels! I have big towels that, at my heaviest, I couldn't wrap around me and now they nearly go twice! It's staggering. ...but it isn't fast. I'm still losing weight. I don't work out as much as I should, but I do make a point to go walking and ride my bike. I have way more energy and am more inclined to just go do things than I was before. I still stall for months on end, but then I'll wake up one day, like today, and find that I've lost 4 pounds. I consider 1-2 pounds a month to be pretty good. Not so much because I'm completely satisfied with that, but rather because I know that I'm still losing and I'm not having to live off of shakes anymore.
I know my sleeve is bigger that it was at first, but 3-4 oz of meat with about 1/2 c of veggies will still fill me up and keep me going for awhile. I'm not always good about it though, and I've discovered some things that I thought I would share:
1) chips (of any kind) go down real easy! Stay away! I occasionally treat myself with Beanitos chips, but I have to watch it
2) I can eat a LOT of shrimp, but they are very low cal and low fat, so I don't worry about it
3) soup is NOT your friend once you're past the healing stage. I've discovered that anything mushy or liquidy goes down fast and I can eat far more of it than anything else. It's best to stick to more dense foods in order to feel full.
4) snacking can easily become a habit that leads to grazing. Even though the amount of food I can eat at any given time remains low, there are ways to defeat the sleeve and snacking/grazing is one of the things that I have to work on every day.
5) the scale doesn't mean very much. I know, I still weigh myself and sometimes get judgey about it, but honestly what matters is how you feel every day and the changes in your body. Those of you who are early out of surgery and weigh yourself every day.. when you feel yourself start to get to the point where the scale is affecting your mood, please work on breaking that obsession. Once a week at most!
6) work on yourself every day. What I mean by that is that every day you are still you. You still have the same tendencies and habits. Work on them every day! It's easy when you are post-op for the first six months or so, but once you are further out you will notice old habits start to creep back in. Be aware of what you are doing!
I think I've rambled enough. I just wanted to check in and say hi!
Bookmarks