I am a bit embarrassed, but I need to vent I guess because I feel so lost....
I am feeling so overwhelmed by this surgery and diet- I have fallen completely off track, Im eating things I know Im not supposed to- diet or surgery wise. I have gone from "just tasting" things to eating them until Im full- even though thats not much, its still bad choices. I feel mentally drained and I think of food ALL DAY- like an internal arguement with myself over what to eat and what not to, then guilt follows, then tears.
I never thought I had a food addiction, even though I am obese, my perception was very jaded. It wasnt until this surgery that I realized how much I am addicted to food- and every time I say it, type it, or think it- I cry. I never thought Id be sad because I cant eat or drink for that matter in the amounts I used to. I NEVER imagined losing food would make me miserable.
Previous to my surgery I did NO counseling, NO preparing- hell, I barely did the pre op diet. From the time I had my first consultation visit until my actual surgery day I only lost about 9 pounds. I was no where near mentally ready for this.
I HATE the thought of eating now, it consumes me, Im always thinking of food and how I can make this work.
Today, I broke down. I lost it. Tears, sobbing, I didnt get out of bed. I found an OA meeting in my area to go to tomorrow and I have a Dr. visit scheduled.
I want to be successful at this- I see so many of you doing so well, and becoming a better you- I want that for myself and for my family. At this point I feel like a total and complete failure- I feel pathetic. I feel like the fat will win- AGAIN.
Everyday I wake up and I plan on starting over- yet I end up feeling like I am losing this fight. Im not sure what to do next- how to lift myself up and get on the right path. How to believe in ME. I cannot believe that these thoughts are in my head- Ive never felt like this before.
I always was upbeat and positive- now I feel this icky mess of emotions all the time. I keep saying to myself "get it together", but I cant seem to find my happy place lately.
I still dont regret this surgery, I just regret not being prepared, and not knowing what my issues were BEFORE I did this.
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