I apologize in advance, but there's some (personal) stuff that I just need to vent about for a minute ~ and this is not for the newbies ~ so here goes.
I don't like what I see. I don't like the way that the person looking back at me in the mirror looks. I don't like the Shar-Pei looking wrinkles across my forehead, the saggy new 'dimples' on my cheeks, the hanging skin under my chin.
I wish I would've had a clue about what would happen to my poor boobs... they used to be the only thing that I could be proud of when I stood naked in front of the mirror, and now... I can't bear to look at myself ~ and it pisses me off. It pisses me off because I chose this. I chose this, so I can't be mad. But I still went from a DD to a pitiful B cup, and it pisses me off anyway.
I have lost more than I wanted to (yay!), but did so SO FAST that my skin stood no chance at keeping up. My torso looks like a have a deflated hot air balloon (with oddly placed nipples) hanging from my shoulders, my sexy round butt has also deflated and now there's skin flaps where my cheeks used to be.. and don't even get me started on my arms or thighs. I FINALLY weigh 135 lbs, but can't wear a skirt or a bathing suit because I look like a 100 year old elephant if I try to show any skin.
I know, I know.. there's always plastic surgery. But at $14,000 (to start)... not something that is possible for me. I would love to, but the foreclosure Gods have won that battle. I have to keep a roof over our heads, and that's more important than what I look like. But it's SO much deeper than what I 'look' like, and no one seems to be able to understand that. That pisses me off.
On a positive note, my hubby loves me unconditionally and really is enjoying his new wife... that makes me happy. I wish I could see what he does and stop critiquing everything about myself, but I don't know how to. And that pisses me off too.
Apparently, I'm bound to be aggravated today.. but am feeling better ~ being able to unload some of this to people that might understand how I feel is a good thing.
So now, I would feel a lot better if this post turned into a group rant ~ so I know I'm not alone, wallowing in my own selfish pissed-off-ness. lol
Thanks for letting me rant - <3
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