4 days out

[Maren]

Well, I'm 4 days out of surgery. Dr. says all went very well, no complications. I however am thinking this sucks right now, with the pain and the taste of the meds. I know I have to look at the bigger picture and that I did the right thing. I am just frustrated that I can't move as easily, even getting up and down, and I haven't been sleep to great since I have to sleep on my back. I still have the drain tube and that is just annoying and the tape itches my skin. I'm sorry for all the complaining, but I feel like this is the right place to do as I'm sure at least one other person will be experiencing the same things. Heartburn is ridiculous and I've quit my regular meds (with no problems) since I can't stand them crushed. Did it once while I was still at the hospital, about threw it all up. I've been monitoring my blood pressure very closely, and my heart rate is excellent. I feel bad for my husband as he is struggling to see me uncomfortable and in pain. And he has a hard time eating since I'm not eating now. I really have to get on his case to eat a meal even though I can't, especially since he's a diabetic. My sister and him have both been very supportive and I'm so glad for that. Again I'm sorry for the negative blurt of emotion, but it has truly helped to let it all out to someone. I hope that everyone is as successful as they hope and reach their goals they have set.

[Its_Me]

You've come to the right place to share your frustrations. I have not had surgery yet, but my best friend (who had bypass 5 years ago) said the first week you will be wondering what the hell you did and why. She said that this all passes, esp. once you get the drain out. Hang in there, its a brand new life waiting for you.

[Maren]

Thanks! It helps to know I'm not the only one who is feeling this way.

[marilynlw]

Don't worry about a little complaining. I am sorry you are not real happy today about the pain and lack of sleep but we know this too shall pass. Hopefully you will be feeling better soon. At least the worst is over, and the best is ahead.

[Unlvrn]

I'm 2 days out and thought the same thing. I look down at my belly and say to myself, what the heck did you do to yourself. I think we just have to get past these first couple od weeks and we'll be okay. I'm scared that my emotional desire to munch, will take over.we need to keep reminding ourselves why we did this and fight on. Congrats on your surgery. Keep in touch, I find all the lovely people on this site are a great inspiration!

[Laural]

I am just a tad over 2 weeks out and I thought the 5-6 days were tough. However, I kept remembering something that I read here on this site "Every Day Get Better". It really helped me get through the pain, swallowing, etc... I knew it would get better and it most certainly has. Take care!!!

[niamh]

You sound very similar to how I was in the early days. In hospital I was fine because I could adjust the electric bed, but once I got home sleeping was more difficult. I found it easier sleeping in the recliner or putting lots and lots of pillows and a quilt behind me so I slept in a semi reclined position was the way to go (particularly helpful when trying to get up in the mornings). I am on daily lanzaprozole for the heart burn as well. The drain I had taken out before I came home so that helped. I also had a couple of weeks of pain meds for post-discharge - liquid paracetomol, liquid codeine. Pain meds were very helpful particularly in calming down the pain to get to sleep and in getting going in the mornings.

3 weeks on now and I feel fine!

[TonyaSitler]

It's really all good, 8 days ago doing the same thing. It really does get better!

[Hollylouya]

I'm 7 weeks out, and 31 lbs lighter! It gets better. I promise. Hang in there! You've taken a major step to improve your life. Give yourself time to heal and your body time to adjust.
You know how all the doctors tell you that surgery is a tool, and you still have to work hard? Well, adjusting to your new stomach and tolerance level has been my HARD part! (And to think pre-surgery that I was worried that I was taking the "easy way out". HA! Not true!) But the hard work is rewarding. I can SEE and FEEL the results happening. I feel better, healthier, and smaller! I've already sent 2 bags of clothes to Goodwill. Now, I look more like the me I remember!
Keep your eyes on the prize! Focus on how far you've come and all of your successes! It will make the difficult days better. Best of luck to you all!