Thank you for the encouragement. I'm feeling pretty good about the surgery itself. I had gall bladder surgery about 7 weeks ago which was my first surgery. It went really well, so that has given me a lot of confidence about the surgery. Don't get me wrong, there are still the nerves about how I'll feel the week after.

I'm most concerned two things: the thought that about 6 months from now I could not be losing weight anymore because I didn't stick to the diet plan and the thought that about 3 years from now I could gain all the weight back after getting to my goal.

That's why I keep having doubts about if I should get the sleeve or RnY. I know the sleeve is the one I want, but sometimes I think I should have the RnY. Not to worry, I'm committed to the sleeve, signed the papers and all, but it is making me anxious wondering....

Hi Kate,
It is nice hearing from you. This is my main site I visit everyday. The other one is too confusing for me.