Sorry to hear you are depressed when this should be the "honeymoon phase". I never have been depressed since the surgery because I have been too happy about losing the weight, feeling good, buying cute clothes, etc, etc. But, I have read many other posts regarding depression. I went to a support grouup once thinking it would be a good idea but it was very boring...mostly people who hadn't yet had the surgery. And, they don't have time to concentrate on one person's issues. I, personally, have found much more support here on this forum. I would suggest you seek out a therapist to assist you with your issues. Don't let depression get a hold of you now when you should be happy!

I am 10 days out and physical recovery is going extremely well, the emotional and mental is going ok, but I expect to be having many minor (and maybe even a major) meltdowns about it in the future. I explained it to my sister like this- I have just cut out, literally CUT OUT, my life long source of comfort and companionship. Now that "friend" might not have been good for me, but it served a purpose, and now I need to find a new way of coping.

Have also been in therapy addressing the whys behind my previous eating habits and now he is supporting me with the "loss" and finding new and better ways to manage.

Hang in there. This is a huge, life altering move you have made, will take time to get used to.

I understand it. I am feeling mildly depressed. I think it is because I can't rely on all the things I use for pleasure. I can't eat things I enjoy, Im still tired so I dont feel like going out and socialising, I can't drink, Im not going out buying new clothes because Im not sure what size to buy them yet (I'm a little too big for my old clothes and a smaller size is still a few kgs off).... So, yes, I totally understand. Go easy on yourself. Spend some time thinking of things that you enjoy doing and try to do them. All the best to you!

It is normal. I have experienced some emotional ups and downs. You are doing the right thing by getting support! Hang in there!! :-)

I wanted to cry all day yesterday. I teared up at Walmart even! This is tramatic for us and it's ok to release it with tears. If you think you could benefit from therapy then DO NOT HESITATE. Sometimes we need someone safe to tell our inner fears and workings to and It helps to have someone help us negotiate the twists and turns of our crazy emotions. Big hugs to you and best wishes for your recovery...all of it.
I had my surgery May 7 so we are are very close to the same date.

I had my surgery april 19th and two weeks later I was crying and depressed and even had regrets, But as days went by and I started loosing weight and seeing the results I really bagan being happy again seeing the results. Honestly its been a mood swing but go on and cry if it will release you but at the end its really worth it. am 38 days out and cant beleive how i fit into my cloths I couldnt wear before. hang in there you will be fine

I think depression is possible after any major surgery, but I can see how it could be much worse after bariatric surgery. You should definitely do group or individual therapy, and in the meantime, maybe you should see your surgeon or PCP. My PCP prescribed Lexapro to me last month, and I still can't believe the difference it has made for me. Good luck.

I believe you're suffering from buyers remorse. I wondered about how this surgery would affect me since I'm a goodie but you have to focus on the benefits of your surgery such as: weightloss, shopping made easy, healthier, and years added to your life is enough to be happy. Also, remember after 6 months you'll be able to eat as normal but not as much. Good luck and I would seek a professionals help if you are severely depressed.

Thanks everyone for the great advice. I am doing really much better today as I put on clothes that are smaller and see those numbers coming off. I know that the sleeve is the absolute best decision I have ever made in my life. My mom called this evening and stated that she was watching the show duets. On this show, there were two big girls. She called me to say that for once in my life I'm not going to be a big girl anymore and she's happy for me. She has seen the struggles, physical, emotional, and mental pains and issues that go along with being overweight. It also hasn't helped that I'm close to my time of the month. I love this forum and everyone's advice and suggestions