What No One Tells You About Dramatic Weight Loss
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, 11-09-2013 at 05:50 PM (2244 Views)
If you read anything today, make it this article: http://nymag.com/thecut/2013/11/what...ight-loss.html
I have previously blogged about some psychological challenges I was undergoing with the dramatic weight loss, my changing body image, the loose tummy, etc. This article nails it on the head!
A lot of people go in thinking if they lose weight all will be great. That's a big fat lie. We will be healthier and we may even look better, but most of the challenges in our life are going to remain.
I always tell people that there are plenty of people out there who are into bigger, fluffier, people ("chubby chasers", etc.) but there isn't a line of people waiting to hook up with us who have loose, hanging, skin. I'm glad I had this surgery to be as healthy as possible so it wasn't until months after reaching my wellness goals that I realized my body had changed and I needed to accept my new flaws. I mostly did but, of course, had the tummy tuck for both aesthetic and functional reasons. That's a lie. I had the tummy tuck for psychological reasons more than my looks, more than the moves I will be able to do better in yoga/pilates, more than it will help me running and playing tennis as well. Feeling normal in my skin is why I coughed up the dough and went through the pain of that plastic surgery.
It is a great journey we are on, but we have to go in with our eyes wide open and now that there are challenges.
I did laugh about the people who lost 60-70# talking about their challenges when many of us are going to lose 2-3 times that but it's all relative and I'm sure someone 75# overweight was as unhappy about it as me being 125# overweight.