help please!

[chubbylovely]

I have my first appointment Feb 23.. and all i've been thinking is.."will i regret doing this to myself later on in life?" i really want to do it and change my eating habbits.. but i'm afraid too.. maybe its just my anxiety.. any advice?

[lunarose]

Hi, I think everyone gets scared and nervous and you should be this is a big decision. After a lot of soul searching I accepted the fact that I was *never* going to lose the weight on my own and that I was developing weight related heart disease so for me surgery was something I felt I needed to have. I am older 54 but I can tell you it was the best decision. I am five months out I started at 208 with a BMI 38 today I weigh 147 my BMI is 27 I no longer need blood pressure and cholesterol drugs. I feel great.

[USAFWIFE]

Will you regret dying early from obesity related diseases and conditions? Will you regret not being able to live a healthy, active lifestyle because you stay fat?

Those were 2 big questions I asked myself. In the grand scheme of things, surgery seemed awfully trivial when I looked into my future staying 270lbs.

I promise you "NOTHING, I mean NOTHING, tastes as good as being thin FEELS."

[sandyfromoz]

@Chubbylovely. The more research and knowledge you gain, the less anxious about your decision you'll become.Read everything you get your hands on and stay with us here.Any questions or advice is freely given here with best wishes and lots of support behind it.
Hugs and good luck on your decision.
@USAWIFE. Umm Umm, that pic, WOW!!!!!!! you look absolutely stunning, so petite and pretty.Your hubby must be so proud with you on his arm.You are an inspiring example of what can be achieved thru hard work along with this gift of a tool. HUGS for you.

[jerseylocks]

I have not been sleeved yet but I do get anxious and think this is irreversable no one can make your stomach whole again once this procedure is complete....this step is HUGE....but then reality hits I am over 400lbs and I will die from co mrbid diseases due to my weight. I think it is ok to feel what we feel but I know I am making a life saving decision. I agree with the previous posts continue reading the boards and the meeting with the doctor will bring forth information as well. Good luck on you wls journey

[chubbylovely]

thank you all so much for your replies.. believe it or not it's very encouraging when we meet people that went through the same things.. and at some point had so many questions similar to the ones we have starting our journey..

thank you for your wonderful words..

[Heather]

I did a ton of research, but was still a little scared! I think that is normal, this is life changing. But trust me it will change your life for the better!!! I have never regretted having the surgery, nor have I ever read on this forum of anyone else regretting it! The joy of actually seeing the numbers fall on the scale make my heart smile more than food ever did! My one regret is that my insurance didn't pay for it years ago!

[tniagirl]

I feel the same way. I am nervous and worry that I am making a "drastic" decision. But I am more worried that if I don't do this, I will continue to yo-yo like I have for 18 years and continue to gain more and more. I don't even know anymore what it feels like to be thin and healthy and to be happy with myself. You will figure out what is right for you. Good Luck!

[Dr_Alvarez]

You will probably regret not doing the surgery sooner. I personally believe it is the best procedure out there for weight loss. Your quality of life and your health will get better as each day goes. Congratulations on your decision!

I wish you the best on your journey.
Dr. Alvarez

[Kloudyday]

I just started on the Gastric Sleeve journey myself and I'm also very nervous. I found this forum this morning and am already feeling better about my decision. I've read about how good everyone who posts on here is feeling and I look forward to feeling that myself. It looks like this will be a very positive move... good luck to you!

[mommaof5]

Everyone is nervous when contemplating surgery, especially elective..... I almost backed out the night prior to my surgery and I can honestly say that I am very happy I didnt. Yes there are thing you will miss, like food but its a journey. I have recently plateaued and haven't yet regretted my decision

[Happy35]

I feel the same way. I'm saving for a gastric sleeve, but since I've made the decision, I've been happier than I have been in years.
But my concern is.....do you get ridd of your longing for sweet stuff? I've met somebody, who've gained all their overweight six years after their surgery. And I'm so scared it will happen to me as well. How do you not take a piece of chocolate, when you've allways used to do it? I know it sounds pathetic and all, but I'm afraid that's the way my mind has allways worked.
Anyone with the same experience?

I hope to get my surgery in Feb. next year and I CAN'T wait.

I really hope somebody will reply.

Take care, all of you.

[marvelous]

I feel the same way. I'm saving for a gastric sleeve, but since I've made the decision, I've been happier than I have been in years.
But my concern is.....do you get ridd of your longing for sweet stuff? I've met somebody, who've gained all their overweight six years after their surgery. And I'm so scared it will happen to me as well. How do you not take a piece of chocolate, when you've allways used to do it? I know it sounds pathetic and all, but I'm afraid that's the way my mind has allways worked.
Anyone with the same experience?

I hope to get my surgery in Feb. next year and I CAN'T wait.

I really hope somebody will reply.

Take care, all of you.

Hi i had surgery Nov 21st 2010. Prior to surgery i ate and ate and ate.
After surgery, its impossible .Once you have your small amount for b/f. dinner /tea you cant physically fit anything in.
the 1st 5wks i fancied everything under the sun, but couldnt eat it. Then that just passed. u can have a taste of things but im afraid sweet things can give you dumping syndrome, i thought this only happened to bypassers, how wrong i was.
So there are things with a new tum to help you cope.
Its there to help, like everything if you break the rules, its on your own head.
Having sounded a bit harsh there, it really is easy, you dont crave like before surgery, that doesnt happen.
I have lost over two stone and i luv my sleeve.
i wish you only the best on your forth coming journey.hugs

[Beautiful Momma]

I haven't seen anyone post on here that they regret getting the sleeve. I know I sure don't!! It was the best decision I have made regarding my health. It's normal to be scared and anxious. But focus on all the positive changes that will happen as a result. Once you make the decision to move forward and have it done, you will feel better. Then you can focus on that. When we are sitting on the fence about something (no matter what it is) we tend to go back and forth about it. Once you set your goal, stay focused on that and the negative stuff can be pushed from your mind more easily. One bit of advice, but it is a personal decision-tell very few people. They tend to be negative and they usually know nothing about what you are going to have done. Good luck. I know you won't regret it!