There are a lot of resources on YouTube...Ask Dr A covers everything from decision making to long term maintenance.
It’s great that you have some support via your brother.
I had severe complications and spent 4.5 months in hospital after 5 total surgeries (including VSG). I developed AFIB and I have a cardiologist and take meds. I’ll soon be off of the meds as I’m a lot healthier now than ever before.
We’re here to share our experiences with you and help you as much as possible ;-)
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