So i recently had a argument or in a way had hurt my best friends feelings. So I have been educating her about the gastric sleeve and bypass from what I've found online and from this website based off of others who have had the gastric sleeve like what I'll be getting next summer and the gastric bypass that she wants next summer too. So the other day I spoke with her and asked her if she had any worried and she said no because i had covered everything but she wanted to get it finance and I told her that from the current job she is about to start that she can just pay out of pocket because we both know that she hasnt tried to build her credit and she doesnt keep a job long, so i let her know that she needed to build her credit before she goes to get financing but in the event that she can't get approved then she's better off paying out of pocket we both will be using Dr.almanza; Well yesterday my boss told me that he wanted her to come in for a group interview since they were hiring again well I'd asked her if she was clean (from weed) and she said no so I was upset because I had told her that I had submitted her resume the day before so then I asked her when was the last time she smoked and she said Sunday night so then I said "omg really girl? you must not wanna work. I', trying to help give you a leg up so that you can afford your surgery but then you go and self-sabotage yourself!" so then she blocked my phone number for a couple hours but by the time I got off from work she had unblocked me. I had also msg her and said i personally want whats best for you and I dont want my best friend to die from procrastinating or being lazy and committing self-sabotage when i came back from my surgery 3yrs ago and you told me you were having chest pains I was highly scared and concerned for what it could mean and that was before I was in the medical assisting program and then to know that you have 2 horrible conditions that can cause you to pass away in your sleep makes me even more scared. I'm sorry if i insulted you or hurt you but I will not apologize for why I did it. So at this point I'm not sure what to talk to her about I do want to clear the air with her but I'm not sure if I can continue to confide in her in regards to the surgery next year. I want her to have a better happy healthy life but I also know theres only so much you can do for people and the rest they have to be willing to do for themselves. I already told her how long It would take her to get approved through her insurance they want her to do diet and exercise for 6mths at 2yrs before her surgery date and I have seen some people on here go through the same thing only to be denied and then they have to pay out of pocket for it anyway. Was i wrong to come at her like that?
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