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    Gastric Sleeve Member DHB's Avatar
    I have had a gastric sleeve.
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    Dale
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    Last night I went to a business dinner downtown DC. I ate so little of an amazing meal that I decided to ask for a to go box. When I stepped on the Metro to go home there was a young woman with a sign saying she needed money for food and shelter. (It was well below freezing yesterday.) I just handed her my bag and I thought she would cry. It was still warmish and she opened it and looked at me with tears in her eyes. I had such a moment of gratitude that I was able to share my meal with her.

    Having this operation has certainly changed my eating habits but it's also changed me attitude toward food. I ate so mindlessly before. Seeing someone who was so hungry and so grateful was just a reminder--I hesitate to call it an NSV--to see food as a gift but also as something to not be gulped, inhaled, shoveled (as I once did).

    Yes, I know quite a bit about homeless people and those who beg for money. This was a spontaneous moment that could have ended with her throwing the food back at me and saying she really needed money not my leftovers. But she didn't.

    No I didn't lose a pound yesterday but it didn't matter.


    Beginning weight: 265
    Weight at surgery: 255
    M1: 240 (-15)
    M2: 232(-8)
    M3: 227 (-5)
    M4: 221 (-6)
    M5: 215 (-6)
    M6: 210 (-5)

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    Gastric Sleeve Member Dutchie's Avatar
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    Simonne
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    Default Re: Sharing the bounty

    What a wonderful story Dale....
    Bless your heart...
    English is not my first language anymore, so I may and do make mistakes in my spelling, or say things oddly. Please ask me, if you want any clarifications.



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    I have had a gastric sleeve.
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    Rahul Singh
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    Default Re: Sharing the bounty

    Beautiful!! I love it thanks for sharing!



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    Gastric Sleeve Member bianca_g_h's Avatar
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    Grimaldi
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    omg i love this, thank you for sharing!!!


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    Gastric Sleeve Member Alynn's Avatar
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    Dale, your blessing of being able to share your meal goes far beyond a NSV. It given you a different perspective on how you and we looked a good before.
    Thank you for your compassion and kindness. You will be blessed for blessings others! Thanks for sharing your story and I am sure we can all learn from it.



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    Gastric Sleeve Member jerzeygirl's Avatar
    I have had a gastric sleeve.
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    Paying it forward is a great thing always and you were very kind to do that random act of kindness! Thanks for sharing.



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    Gastric Sleeve Member Luv49ers19's Avatar
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    Dale you were there in that moment for a reason. She needed you and the same can be said as you need her. What a beautiful moment. God bless!
    Hw: 260
    Sw: 260 10/23/16
    Weight at time of sleeve 209 (-51)
    Sleeve date 5/23/17
    1 month:187 (-22)
    2 month:178 (-9)
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    4 month:162 (-10)
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    8 month: 131 (-5) made goal weight 130 (2/8/2017)
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    Gastric Sleeve Member DHB's Avatar
    I have had a gastric sleeve.
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    Dale
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    11/14/2017
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    Kathrine Lamond
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    Quote Originally Posted by Luv49ers19 View Post
    Dale you were there in that moment for a reason. She needed you and the same can be said as you need her. What a beautiful moment. God bless!
    Cody, you are so right. This wasn't about me being generous or even thinking very much before acting. It was just a moment that was meant to be and would never have happened before. (I can't remember ever having leftovers before!) Glad to share it with y'all.


    Beginning weight: 265
    Weight at surgery: 255
    M1: 240 (-15)
    M2: 232(-8)
    M3: 227 (-5)
    M4: 221 (-6)
    M5: 215 (-6)
    M6: 210 (-5)

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    Gastric Sleeve Member Ann2's Avatar
    I have had a gastric sleeve.
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    Wonderful moment, Dale.

    Thanks for sharing this.



    Consult: 235 lbs
    My and doc's preop diet: 216 -19 lbs
    M1 postop 205 -30
    M2 193 -42
    M3 184 -51
    M4 174 -61
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    Gastric Sleeve Member Stacey03's Avatar
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    Default Re: Sharing the bounty

    Such a beautiful story Dale and how great that you were able to feed someone with some beautiful food. I think we were all very mindless about food at some point xxx


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    Gastric Sleeve Member Christie13's Avatar
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    Default Re: Sharing the bounty

    No you didn't lose a pound but you gained so much more. You are a beautiful person Dale.



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