This is why I only told my mom, children, and a few close friends. And turns out one of the "close friends" blabbed it to everyone, and told others how she knew someone who had weight loss surgery and gained back all their weight. She didn't say that to me. And now she can eat her words as 4 years later I have not gained back my weight.
I was so surprised when out to dinner with a large group of acquaintances when someone started asking me about my surgery. Yep, had to be someone the "friend" shared my story with.
My best advice for newbies is tell only your immediate support group.
After losing all my weight, if a large person asked how I did it, I told them. I actually motivated 2 people to have the surgery, the wife of a guy I taught with and a total stranger (substitute teacher) I met in the teacher's lounge over lunch. She was taking about how the doctor wanted her to lose weight but she just couldn't. Saw her a year later, regular-sized, and she thanked me, said she was wishy-washy about the surgery but after meeting me got the confidence to do it.
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