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[libra]

I have my op in 13 days. I'm anxious to say the least as I haven't got anyone able to come with me due to work and schooling commitments.

I am on day 2 of my preop diet.

Grateful of any tips for this pre op phase.

Thanks in advance

[simplyseahorse]

I am with you - started preop although my heart is not fully in it until I get a bleeping surgery date nailed down. My only family in town is my mom and step dad, and they are older. Step dad will get up to take me to hospital - but friends will all be working, and I had originally planned for surgery right around the holidays, so they will be busy with that. We will be your friends and support from afar though. So glad that you have your date - and less than two weeks to go. It is totally normal to feel anxious - but what I have tried to do in addition to reading the recent posts is to find someone who has a sort of familiar story to mine - age or weight or timeline, and follow their progress through this. It has helped me anyway. At the top of the forum there is a tab that says "surgeries" where you can find people who have surgery dates near to yours. Try to connect with them so you can talk about how you are all getting through it together

[DHB]

I'm 3 days out and honestly, it was easier than I expected. Pre-op was worse in some ways.

You should ask your insurance if home care is provided in your plan. Some insurance companies cover a home care nurse if you have no one to care for you. From my experience, you may need someone for the first few days. I've been making my husband wait on me. Hard to bend over and get in and out of bed. But someone should also be making sure you get your fluids, etc.

[Jeanious]

Welcome Libra? I too am having the op on the 30/11. I'm on shakes and salad for these two weeks and it sucks!
Not long to go though. The people on here are great for advice and support.
Come here each day, read some blogs, check out meals etc. it'll pass the time whilst learning so much about what to expect when done.
I'm so nervous but feel this is the start of a new me.

[Christie13]

Good luck Libra. How long do you have to stay in hospital? Honestly, I slept off and on post op so really I wouldn't have known if my hubby was there or not. The main thing is having a ride home from the hospital. You got this. It is normal to be nervous. But once you get through to the other side...the fun begins. Your journey to your transformation to happy and healthy!!

[libra]

Good luck Libra. How long do you have to stay in hospital? Honestly, I slept off and on post op so really I wouldn't have known if my hubby was there or not. The main thing is having a ride home from the hospital. You got this. It is normal to be nervous. But once you get through to the other side...the fun begins. Your journey to your transformation to happy and healthy!!

Thank you, such a positive reply, yes I have a ride home sorted out. I go in on the Thursday and leave Saturday morning all being well

[libra]

Welcome Libra? I too am having the op on the 30/11. I'm on shakes and salad for these two weeks and it sucks!
Not long to go though. The people on here are great for advice and support.
Come here each day, read some blogs, check out meals etc. it'll pass the time whilst learning so much about what to expect when done.
I'm so nervous but feel this is the start of a new me.

Yay! Surgery twin
I wasn't sure which diet option to pick but having to still prepare food for the children meant I knew i couldn't not eat something when they did.
I'm not really enjoying it as I really crave rice or potatoes to complete the meal, but its the stepping stones to a better future so worth it. Its getting that bit easier as the time goes on

Distraction has served me well these few days and an early night

[libra]

I'm 3 days out and honestly, it was easier than I expected. Pre-op was worse in some ways.

You should ask your insurance if home care is provided in your plan. Some insurance companies cover a home care nurse if you have no one to care for you. From my experience, you may need someone for the first few days. I've been making my husband wait on me. Hard to bend over and get in and out of bed. But someone should also be making sure you get your fluids, etc.

Appreciate the advice!
Thank you
How are you finding your recovery now

[libra]

I am with you - started preop although my heart is not fully in it until I get a bleeping surgery date nailed down. My only family in town is my mom and step dad, and they are older. Step dad will get up to take me to hospital - but friends will all be working, and I had originally planned for surgery right around the holidays, so they will be busy with that. We will be your friends and support from afar though. So glad that you have your date - and less than two weeks to go. It is totally normal to feel anxious - but what I have tried to do in addition to reading the recent posts is to find someone who has a sort of familiar story to mine - age or weight or timeline, and follow their progress through this. It has helped me anyway. At the top of the forum there is a tab that says "surgeries" where you can find people who have surgery dates near to yours. Try to connect with them so you can talk about how you are all getting through it together

Thank you I will definitely have a look
Are you any closer to getting date?

[simplyseahorse]

Well I have a final appointment with my surgeon that is required by insurance before all of my paperwork can be submitted to them. That appointment is on Monday after Thanksgiving. Then I will start the wait for the final approval and hopefully get a date. Not sure it is going to be before the end of the year, but I guess some miracle could happen......

I know the pre-op part has got to be no fun at all - but just remember it is short term and will be over with very soon. Of course then things will be different again for a while, but in the long run, it is all going to be worth it. Plenty of people on this forum have been able to go back to eating small portions of good foods and a few things that they like that maybe are not the healthiest but once in a while are ok.

I just keep telling myself that I can do anything for a little while - so when it is my turn for the no carbs and just protein shakes, I can do this - and you can do this too!!!!!

[Tess530]

I wish I could be there for you in real life, but know that you will be in my thoughts the entire time! Try to relax and count your blessings-- you already know how unhealthy stress and worry are. You're going to do great!!

[libra]

Well I have a final appointment with my surgeon that is required by insurance before all of my paperwork can be submitted to them. That appointment is on Monday after Thanksgiving. Then I will start the wait for the final approval and hopefully get a date. Not sure it is going to be before the end of the year, but I guess some miracle could happen......

I know the pre-op part has got to be no fun at all - but just remember it is short term and will be over with very soon. Of course then things will be different again for a while, but in the long run, it is all going to be worth it. Plenty of people on this forum have been able to go back to eating small portions of good foods and a few things that they like that maybe are not the healthiest but once in a while are ok.

I just keep telling myself that I can do anything for a little while - so when it is my turn for the no carbs and just protein shakes, I can do this - and you can do this too!!!!!

Enjoy Thanksgiving!
Thank you for the boost.
We can do this!
All the best for Monday xx

[libra]

I wish I could be there for you in real life, but know that you will be in my thoughts the entire time! Try to relax and count your blessings-- you already know how unhealthy stress and worry are. You're going to do great!!

how sweet!
I really appreciate that. That is very true I just need to relax a bit.
Thank you x