Today caught me off guard. It started when I went to the hospital to do pre-registration. I was just feeling emotional about the surgery. I am not scared of surgery- have never been. And I am the type of person that knows I can generally do anything I put my mind too. Ive been on Cloud 9 lately waiting for surgery day and my whole life to change... to get off this diet roller coaster. So thats why I was surprised when I felt emotional although I couldnt put my finger on why. Perhaps its that I am ashamed I even allowed my body to get to the point where surgery is the last resort.
Anyway, then I came home and started to read this highly recommended book, "The Emotional First Aid Kit: A Practical Guide to Life After Bariatric Surgery". I spiralled from there. It talked alot about the things we need to be aware of in dieting- not letting non-diet foods in the house, asking family to be supportive and not eat around you if it triggers you, making plans so you dont cheat at a movie or party. This sounded alot to me like the roller-coasters I was trying to get off of!! It said that I should not eat ANY non-diet food until after I reach my goal weight. Thats at least a year away (or more!) and that is precisely why I wanted to get off the diet rollercoaster.... because to me, that doesnt feel realistic, to deprive yourself completely for that long. Maybe I was completely mistaken on what diet will consist of after surgery- so thats why I am here- for some real answers so I know how to set my expectations. What I thought my diet would be is that proteins and water are my top priority. In the beginning it will be hard to get enough of those in. When I can fit more food in, I will eat healthy, still making nurishing food my priority and since the stomach will be so small, thats really all I will get in there for a long time. I did, however, think that if I wanted to take a nibble (a true nibble only) of something non-diet related during my first year, it would be ok to do occasionally (and I do mean occasionally) because we are already eating such few calories, fat, etc generally. If it turns out this is true, and I cant eat non-diet food until after I reach my goal weight, I just need to know so I can set my expectations correctly.
So my question is- why is this diet or method any different than the other 50 diets we have all done? What is the sleeve going to do for me this time that those diets didnt do? I had the same motivation and passion throughout those diets, but gained it back or quit before my year was up. Why will this time be different? So many of you say this has changed your lives and you dont regret it for a minute. So maybe you can answer this for me. Because I know all of you did the diet roller-coaster beforehand too. Why was this time different for you? Thanks in advance.
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