Hi everyone,
Thanks for all your threads. I've learned a lot by reading all your posts.
I'm not sure whether or not to disclose what I'm doing. Right now only my husband knows.
I've gone up and down with my weight throughout most of my life. When I was successful and someone inquired I told them how I managed to lose weight e.g. weight Watchers, etc. i feel like ppl think that surgery is the easy way out. I believe it's the exact opposite. I know it'll be challenging and a real lifestyle change. I've thought about this and been in counseling in order to make the right decision for me.
One of my friends had the sleeve done and went full on Kardashian with it--making and posting videos, disclosing all the gory details when she didn't follow doctors' orders, etc. When I think about how it might play out I'm worried that I'll be subjected to a lot of other peoples issues as they weigh in on what I've done. I know I shouldn't care but I don't want to be judged any more than I already have been. Yet I don't know what I'll say if someone asks so it doesn't feel like I'm lying.
Would love any advice or experiences you've had. I'm trying to set myself up for success and think I need to resolve this for myself before surgery.
Thank you in advance!
Amanda
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