Ok... So I'm a little embarrassed to ask, but has anyone's sex drive changed for the worse after surgery? The threads I've read on this site all say that it's improved for them since surgery, but not for me. It's complete opposite and I'm afraid it might lead to my husband leaving. I feel so much better about myself since surgery (I'm 80 pounds lighter!), but cringe when my husband touches me. It almost seems like sex is a chore that I never want to do. He brought it to my attention last night and it made me feel so bad. He's hurting and he feels like I've changed since having surgery. he says he wants his pre-surgery wife back, that I was much more affectionate. I see his point, but don't know how to change the way I feel. I just have no desire anymore. Any advise from people that have crossed this hurdle after surgery? I'm about a year and a half out. I have energy, so it's not like I'm too tired or anything, I just don't want to do it.
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