Hi guys, haven't checked in a while. My weight loss is going really well. The sleeve has really been a miracle for me. The last 2 weeks I've probably not eaten the right things due to some stress I'll mention below however the sleeve Doesn't let me eat out of control which is an important tool as you all know when us food addicts get faced with challenges. There was one week I put on 2 lbs. that's gone now and I'm at my lowest I've been in years.. 267!!!
Now the tough part that I touched in a few months ago. I'm a divorced father of 3. I have shared custody of my 3 daughters (8,6,4)..
I met a wonderful woman 10 years younger than me (she's 28) and she has accepted me at my heaviest and in my darker days-- after divorce and being unfit and decision to go ahead with this surgery. I always felt like the surgery woukdnt align everything up for me. However I started to feel this inner pressure that I wouldnt be able to offer her everything she deserved and everything we planned for the future. I'm not sure if this transition from having no self esteem to feeling better about life as a whole got in the way but 3 days ago I let her go. I still feel like I made the right decision at the time because I felt at a crossroads. And I realize its fresh and probably normal to want to go back. But I can't help but think I'm crazy to not take her back. We have same values, same interests , she's a good person and a wonderful step mom to my girls. How long do I wait to give myself time to make sure she's the one.
I know this isn't a relationship forum but I've found so many great tips on here and figured maybe I'd get some insight from people who've gone through the surgery and possible relationship issues.
Thanks
Andrew
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