Originally Posted by
tinman
Rules are for sheeple. Make your own plan, work your own plan, own your results, and change as needed. If you blindly follow someone elses rules, how are you ever going to know how to fix your weight loss problems that are going to creep up in the future. This board is littered with posts from folks who are 18 months out and have stopped losing and are gaining. Their plan is broken and they have no reason why it's broken and no idea on how to fix it.
Personally, I think the BMI stat is just another attempt to pigeon hole everyone into a mold that cannot possibly be accurate. What do I mean? I mean that that there are a ton of folks out there whose BMI will never be "normal", but, you would be hard pressed to fit them into a group of morbidly obese people and tell them that they are on the road to a quick and early death unless they get that BMI under control. I am one of those folks.
According to the BMI scale, I am morbidly obese and will die soon from complications due to Diabetes, High Blood Pressure, Heart disease, and pulmonary distress due to the presupposed stress on my lungs from all of the fat I am carrying. In reality? I have normal blood pressure, my cholesterol and all of the outliers associated with that is absolutely, spot on perfect. My fasting glucose is below 80 and my most recent EKG and stress test indicates that I have heart health that is in the upper 5% for my age group.
So, why is this? I am an ex athlete. As such, I will always be bigger than you, weigh more than you, and never fit into any of those charts that you and everyone else think are so important. To say that I am morbidly obese is like me saying that you are close to death because you can't bench press 400 lbs.
The measurement I just laid out there is about as relevant to your world as BMI is to mine.
So, I really love what Ann wrote in her post. She's pretty much right.
I don't know who decided what the "rules" are, but, I will say that for me, those rules represented a construct that smelled an awful lot like dieting. I hate diets and diets suck. I sucked at dieting and failed miserably every time I tried. So did most everyone on here. So, when someone comes on here and starts chastising about "breaking rules", then I feel compelled to jump in and say that your rules mean absolutely nothing to me and to a lot of folks on here. Why? Because I have learned how to live a normal life in a non sleeved world and that normal life involves me eating what I want, when I want, and made just the way I like it. What I have done, just like my naturally skinny friends, is learned how to eat normal food and not gain weight.
It is absolutely ludicrous to think that any of us can go the next 30 or 40 years without eating carbs, fat, sugar, or any of the foods we like. We can't and we won't. So, instead of setting yourself up to fail at yet another diet, why not learn, VERY EARLY ON, how to eat normally and not gain weight. That way, you will maintain you goal weight and live happily ever after. Now, if eating on a strict food plan is what blows your skirt up, then you should by golly do just that. But, as my way is not the only way, neither is yours.
I may not be 36 months post op, but, I am 33 months so I'm going to go ahead and claim a 36 month victory. I'm pretty sure I'm not going to gain 265 lbs in the next 90 days. In fact, I'm damned sure I'm not going to gain and keep 5 lbs in the next 90 days. How can I be so sure? Because I have learned how to eat normally in a non sleeved world and since I took the time to learn how to do that, I am equipped with the tools to maintain indefinitely...as long as I follow my number one rule.
Never, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever, ever over eat.....ever.
So, in conclusion, I'm going to say this. I don't break my rules on a daily basis. I came up with a set of rules tailored made for my set of circumstances and modified them to assure my success in losing and my success in maintaining. In my very humble opinion, each of us is responsible for coming up with a plan that assures us of success. Each of those plans will be individual and singular because each of us is individual and singular.
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