tell you what? my hubby also communicates thru breakfast or meals..and in time you will be able to go out again..cottage cheese..fruit, veggies..all are there for you..and you will be cheaper now too...the biggest problem in the begining of going out with him was to not drink and eat..that was hard..but now i am used to it..and we go out a few times a week. i am very careful...but it is just fine...
tonight we took a friend out to a birthday dinner..my hubby ordered grilled chicken and i ate it just fine..we had a lovely time..all went well..
so this is not permanent..for the beginning you will have to adjust..but in time..you can still go out with your lovely wife..but you just wont eat as much...it really does work out if you make smart choices..