I was wondering how many people experienced what I have been dealing with ever since I decided to get sleeved. My surgery is in 55 days (and counting) but now I'm just so sick of everyone judging me and thinking they know more about this than I do, when in fact they are completely ignorant.
Where is the support in the decision to change my life? Where is the encouragement to get healthy? All I get are people saying to me "Why would you do this?" and "You're never gonna be able to eat anything again". I was getting in the habit of just shrugging them off, but last night pushed me over the edge. I was watching the biggest loser and said to my roommate that it is preparing me for life after my surgery to which she replied "yeah but you're cutting corners, they're not". It really got me worked up, and I felt like I had to defend myself and my decision. Us educated people know that this is not an easy way out, but why doesn't the rest of the world get that?
If people are like this before I've even gone in for the procedure what is it going to be like after? Does everyone experience this?
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