Hello everyone, I have been viewing this group for many weeks and doing my research on the sleeve for awhile now. I had finally made my mind up that I was going to have the sleeve done in Mexico because that is what I can afford, my insurance will pay nothing towards this. So to my issue. I am very close with my mom and I told her about my decision to have the surgery and to have it done in Mexico. I explained to her why I had made the decision and she seemed to understand but had some real reservations about having it done in Mexico and about any after care I may need. So for weeks we didn't discuss the issue, then last night she called me extremely upset saying that a friend of a friend just died from complications of gastric bypass surgery, I guess the lady had a staph infection that caused her to be in the hospital and nursing homes for two years before she lost the battle yesterday. My mom begged me to just find a doctor that may be able to prescribe something to help me or do anything else besides this surgery. I didn't have the heart to go into the discussion with her anymore because she was so upset. But I really feel that this is something I have to do for myself. I feel like I'm losing myself in all this weight I am lugging around with me everyday! I'm Miserable! Please someone give me some advise on how to handle this with my mom, I know that she is just scared and doesn't realize that if I stay like THIS, I WILL DIE!!
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