Sex and the Sleeve

[tedesco6]

It's hard to ignore this topic. Thought I would chime in, from a man's point of view. I am Italian, so I have always had an active sex drive. When my weight was at it's max, I began to notice some drop off in sexual desire. I have to say, it has come back. No big stomach in the way, no high heart rate, no loss of breath, and best of all (for a man) your penis size is larger and more erect with weight loss. Yes, Oprah show was right (didn't watch the episode but heard from wife). Weight does affect penis size. Now, if my wife can keep up, IT IS ON!!!!

[headsntails]

lol!!! So... post 40 lbs of weight loss... YES. sex is great!!! lol..

[gloeygirl66]

No big stomach in the way, no high heart rate, no loss of breath, and best of all (for a man) your penis size is larger and more erect with weight loss. Yes, Oprah show was right (didn't watch the episode but heard from wife). Weight does affect penis size. Now, if my wife can keep up, IT IS ON!!!!

Woohooo!!! Sounds like you are enjoying ALL the benefits of the sleeve!!

[Tammy64]

Gloey....you going Vegas? We need all the help we can get ..keeping John in line.

[Grace]

It's hard to ignore this topic. Thought I would chime in, from a man's point of view. I am Italian, so I have always had an active sex drive. When my weight was at it's max, I began to notice some drop off in sexual desire. I have to say, it has come back. No big stomach in the way, no high heart rate, no loss of breath, and best of all (for a man) your penis size is larger and more erect with weight loss. Yes, Oprah show was right (didn't watch the episode but heard from wife). Weight does affect penis size. Now, if my wife can keep up, IT IS ON!!!!

Ciao il mio nuovo amico. Benvenuto! Italiani abbiamo la maggior parte del divertimento, don' t noi? La vostra moglie è una donna fortunata.

[gloeygirl66]

Ciao il mio nuovo amico. Benvenuto! Italiani abbiamo la maggior parte del divertimento, don' t noi? La vostra moglie è una donna fortunata.

Grace, are you offering our new friend sex advice in Italian?

[michelleb]

Hearing all of this is great, I have a lot of sex to catch up on. Great news !

You might have to join all those single ladies in Vegas.

[Grace]

Grace, are you offering our new friend sex advice in Italian?

A simple welcome and saying yes, we Italians do love amore and sending thoughts that he has a lucky wife to have a husband who wants her.
*Technically I am 1/2 Italian (Rome) and 1/2 French Canadian (Quebec)*

[gloeygirl66]

Gloey....you going Vegas? We need all the help we can get ..keeping John in line.

Tammy...I'm thinking I might join all the madness in Vegas, but I doubt any of us can keep John in line!!! He is like a loose cannon and ready to EXPLODE!

[gloeygirl66]

I hope that this has a positive effect on my sex life because, to be honest with all of you my self esteem had been really low which made me loose interest, Im really excited about getting back on track.

Ramses...Nothings boosts your self esteem more than losing weight! You are doing great and I guarantee you that the ladies are looking! You will need to go out an buy a BIG stick to keep them away...or line them up single file like JJ does!

[Jersey John]

I welcome all the help I can get Ramses...as you can see the ladies here seem to talk quite a great game...We'll see how things "flesh" out in Vegas.....;P

[mommyducky]

I welcome all the help I can get Ramses...as you can see the ladies here seem to talk quite a great game...We'll see how things "flesh" out in Vegas.....;P

It would be so much more fun if I could come. Too bad. :-p

[Ronnie]

OK, so i have to ask... just how long do we have to wait post op before we can have sex? I had surgery Monday. I feel great. Though as much as I want to, I don't see myself swinging from the ceiling fans just yet having wild monkey sex. How long realistically do we wait to get back into the swing of things? How long did you other sex crazed sleevers wait ?

[Grace]

I waited 2 weeks, but I was pretty darned sick the first 10 days. Then I just made sure he was at an angle that would not put his weight on my stomach at all.

[Jersey John]

OK, so i have to ask... just how long do we have to wait post op before we can have sex? I had surgery Monday. I feel great. Though as much as I want to, I don't see myself swinging from the ceiling fans just yet having wild monkey sex. How long realistically do we wait to get back into the swing of things? How long did you other sex crazed sleevers wait ?

When you ask "we"......if you mean "us", I'm on my way over now......;P

If you're speaking in general terms, consensus seems to be what you feel comfortable with, when you feel comfortable and being very careful of the incision areas.