** Very upset and crying **

[Muppin]

I too have kept surgery quiet but just be not talking about it. I ha en had anyone ask me what I did. I think people are negative for several reasons. One cause they probably can't afford or insurance doesn't pay. Two would be fear and three jealousy cause u look good. I have one friend who had lap before I knew he and many who would. Most important is your health. My favorite phase is "in the scope of life this is all little bitty" meaning your health is most important a d nuts and bolts of getting there are nothing. I am not losing as fast as would like but it lbs later I feel GREAT. I can curl up in chair, get down on floor and get up and can semi jog. I am happy