My boyfriend only had one girlfriend before me and she was thin. My boyfriend didn't start dating me until I was 250 lb although when he and I met, I was about 180 (and I had lost a lot of weight because I had spent time in another country and didn't eat much/got sick). But oddly enough, it gives me hope that he dated a thin girl because that shows me that he's not just into "fat girls". Haha.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. Indeed, it sounds like insecurity, possibly. Maybe you guys could go to counselling??
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