While I am happy that my whole family is on board with me having this surgery. Each in their own way has told me that they are happy and they are doing little things to show their support. However, it just seems that now discussing my body and size and whatnot has become completely acceptable. Primarily its my Mom. Granted she was making comments that kind of hurt me before I told her. But now it seems that at every opportunity, and maybe I am just being overly sensitive, she kind of looks me over and then says something about my body that hurts me.
I do suspect I am being overly sensitive because I myself have begun to really see myself. Does that make sense. I used to avoid mirrors and avert my eyes because I didn't want to deal with my issue. But I am out of denial now. But I am struggling with continuing to feel good about who I am, as I was before I starting looking in mirrors again and paying attention, and I don't like all of this attention. Does that sound weird?
Maybe it is just something I need to "get over" and get used to because once I have surgery and really start losing lbs, I will get more comments.
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