I've been reading articles on why it is impossible to loss weight for the long term when one has been obese for a long time. My decision to have the surgery is a decision to loss weight for good -- or at least to give myself the chance to do so. The only other option is to lose and gain repeatedly (or just to stay fat) and continue to have the back pain, the hypertension, the sleep apena . . . Now if I can just get my husband and mom on board. It will be incredibly difficult to have surgery at the end of April if I have no support.from the 2 most important people in my life . . . and maybe no one to help me through recovery without making me feel like I've made the biggest mistake of my life. . . I know that they are just concerned about the dangers of surgery and that this is such a "drastic" approach. But, I don't think that I can do it without them.
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