Hi. I'm new here. Something that is on my mind is that I have used food as a defense mechanism to keep bad men away.
One thing I have learned is that most men will not date a woman who is anything but smaller. I have no respect for those men.
Given that after I have my surgery in late May/early June, I will soon be much smaller...and likely end up receiving unwanted attention from men who normally consider a bigger woman to be worthless.
I would like to find a good man to date, and believe that I can discern the difference between someone who is a shallow and fickle jerk, and a decent, good man.
Many people say the right one will come along, but I believe there are many possible "right" matches...not that I ever really met one. I just think we don't have a single right person for us. Not really.
I would really like to find a man who is right for me now, who will accept me and love me now...and later.
How do you know a man isn't one of those jerks who hate larger women?
I have some fear about this whole topic. In truth, I have been used and hurt a lot...and maybe I can't tell the difference between deceivers and good men...until after they are done deceiving.
Does anyone have any useful and good thoughts about this topic?
Thanks for reading, and replying.
Cindi
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