I know the feeling about being uncomfortable... but a better love life is one of the perks that come with WLS
He is a keeper Dominique
The best part of sex after the sleeve is you will actually be able to enjoy your partner exploring your body. I don't have excess skin (which I was worried about) so there is like this new found freedom with sex. I have always enjoyed it and had a high drive, but I didn't really like being naked during the day or with lights on....and having someone roam my body with their hands, mouth whatever, was uncomfortable for me also because I didn't want them to see or feel my chubbiness.
Now, it's my very favorite part of foreplay.
As for being on top, again - I loved the position before, but hated being on complete display. Now I love it.
I think it has a lot to do with feeling sexier now too.
ok, so since everyone here is talking about sex, I had my sleeve done 4 days ago, my husband is still scared to even kiss me, thinking he may hurt me...how long did you guys wait to have sex? and did it hurt the first after the surgery?
Im single, so this won't be all that helpful probably....but 2.5 months
However, if he is on top it should be fine. You're going to know if you're using your abs too much and you can stop. Instead of him laying on top of you...just have him hold on behind your knees (lifting your legs up) and he can lean against that instead.
And there's aways oral
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