Skinny Sex

[BigChicken]

All this talk about sex don't help us girls without a bed feller. Not fair. Lol. Not too many prospects in the cotton picking town. Oh well, like seeing some people having fun.

[Grace]

Yes and amen. Its like being born again together. Its indescribable. Were planning our first cruise this November and couldn't be more excited.

If this ship is rocking, don't come knocking So happy for you both! Hubby and I have dropped 120 lbs between us since June, so we are finding things to be more spontaneous as well.

[Stephy]

My hubby has lost 40 pounds on his own recently...and I have to say, I can't keep up with him...can't wait for the "skinny sex" ...and to able to fit into cute lingerie!

[ILgal]

Boy, my studly man you and Rena must be having a great time! How great for you to connect in such a positive manner with your new you's! It has been so many years for me I hope some day I will be saying the same thing!

I am proud of your progress! Keep it up!

You are looking awesome!!

[spk398]

between my wife and i (she had the band ) me the sleeve we have lost 100+lbs so far and the sex life is awesome. i now realize that the extra weight certainly hinders your sex drive . i am always in the mood now and its great she is loving it and so am i

[AmyR]

My husband is 150 pounds and has been out entire marriage. I was 150 pounds over weight! Since losing 75 pounds, sex has been so much better and easier. He even mentioned he could kiss my neck and such without struggle! Skinny(er) is just awesome in ALL aspects!

[bigdogtstowe1]

I sure hope you weren't texting me in the middle of the deed....lmao!

[FlowerGalTX]

=) That's awesome!

[Rick71]

You Sir inspire me everytime I read one of your post. Congrats on the new found you and life you have now.

[Anamor2011]

It has been awesome for us too! My husband lost over 225 lbs and I so far have lost over 70 lbs, you can imagine all that extra fat out of the way! It's like we are newlyweds all over again! I can't wait for valentine's to have a special weekend getaway and hopefully not be so sore from surgery anymore! hehe

[jerzeygirl]

Ah, the wonders of WLS!! I think we're really lucky to be able to share it with others who feel a similar way because they're been through it and are taking this journey together. I've been married for 37 years to the same wonderful man and I've always been reluctant to let him see me completly neekid with lights on. That's all changed now!! He laughed the other night and said I should join a nudist colony as I'm always walking from room to room without my clothes on. I also bought some sexy undies and modeled for him. For the younger folks, sex and intimacy doesn't get old as we ourselves get older!! It's just nice to bring some adveture and spice to the "table" instead of putting food on the table... In fact, I might even try it on the table, now that I know it won't break under my weight..lol...

[BettyBoop88]

Ya'll got me pumped. I have a high sex drive now, and I know when I "put down" the rest of my weight, I'm gonna gain an even bigger sex drive. I cannot wait to experience that...and all the new positions.

[DestinyDeb]

One of the great things about WLS and getting healthy is rediscovering our libido. But it is really more then that... it is the confidence we find in ourselves that makes it all possible, even more then the weight loss, though loosing the weight does make things easier. It is taking care of ourselves and wanting to take care of ourselves that makes us want to express ourselves sexually... It is that desire to touch and be touched, and no longer feeling as if we are repulsive.
Except for the 5 or so years before my surgery I have always been a sexual, sensual woman... the five years before surgery, my heath was such that I really just did not care... then add on to that my shame for the way I looked, even if someone told me that they found me attractive, I would question their taste, I mean what kind of person could they be if they found ME attractive right?
After my surgery, even before I had lost very much weight, I found that I was starting to feel like my old self again. Yes loosing some weight helped, the fact that my health issues were vastly improved helped, but more important then all of that was the fact that I started to believe that "I" was worth it. I started caring about myself again... I started feeling good about myself again, and when a man (the same man who found me attractive before I lost weight) let me know that I was truly desirable, I didn't question his taste, I accepted it...( though I was uncomfortable to begin with) and he showed me in no uncertain terms that I was sexy and sensual, and attractive, and lovable and beautiful, all the things that I never thought I would feel again especially at 50 years old... but now, looking at 51, (very soon) I know I am all that and more... I am better then I was at 20... I have the confidence and the wisdom to back it all up now, something I did not have at 20. And it is that feeling of confidence and worthiness that makes me sexy, sensual, attractive, lovable and beautiful.

[dominique]

I was sleeved 12-19-11. My boyfriend has always made me be on top. I thought he was lazy. The other night he told me he was looking forward to trying another position when I lose more weight. For 8 years I never knew! And he was nice enough not to make a big deal about my weight and kept it to himself. No wonder I love him so much. He loves me in spite of my weight, but is looking forward to a thinner me.

[becca72]

Im still looking for a willing body

Without a doubt...you will have NO problem!