growing pains & mom worries
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, 03-02-2020 at 03:49 PM (4687 Views)
so the last time I checked in I was about to start my new position at a different school & so far so good! My oldest asked me to drive him to meet this girl he's been talking to for awhile to Tanger outlets. So we & the baby drove over an hour to meet up w/ this girl & her mom. They take off & her mom & I are trying to make small talk & our info is not adding up. So I start to get suspicious & start texting my son. He ignores the texts & calls so I look on the life 360 app & see he's not moving. I tell the girls mom, we need to go find them. Long story short we track them down to a family bathroom!!! I put him to the wall & demand to know what he did & if he touched that girl or if she touched him. The mother starts sobbing hysterically saying basically the girl is a whore & such a disappointment & where did she go wrong as a mother???!!! I was the rational one which I normally wouldn't have been but I had my 4 yr old w/ us as well. All they did was make out because the girl was on her period & he's 16 & she's 15 but it could have been so much worse!!! Any way we get home, tell him he's grounded from his phone & all further activities & he got pissed & punched a wall directly on the stud the next evening breaking his ring & pinky finger on his right hand! We saw the ortho on Monday & the scheduled surgery for the next morning. The sunday evening following his surgery he breaks out in hives from the cast. Back to ortho that removes the cast & scrubs his arm w/ antibacterial soap & gives him an exoskeleton to wear until his follow up this Friday. UGH!!!! All this over a girl & as of now he's not even talking to anymore thank goodness!!!! Also my mother saw the neurologist & passed all the tests for alzheimers w/ flying colors & saw her cardiologist who said she had 70% blockages a year ago in both her carotid arteries. She had the iv dye test to see how much more the blockage is on Friday & my brother & I nagged her into doing the surgery to clear them if the dr says she needs it. The blockages could be causing alot of her forgetfulness & other issues. I've been really struggling w/ stress eating due to all of this. So Please say a few prayers for my son & my mom is you could. TYSM!!!!