Adjusting to the new me....:)
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, 12-08-2014 at 12:50 AM (1952 Views)
It has been a while since I've posted anything, but my weight loss is going well. I'm currently at 186 and am quite happy. My doctor wants me at 165 but honestly I believe I'll be happy at 175. I look at pictures from a year ago and I can hardly recognize myself. I have more confidence in myself and have made so many changes for the better.
With all this though I find it difficult when people think it's ok to make comments about my weight. Most of them are:
"You look great you should stop now"
"How much more do you want to loose? You don't want to look to thin"
etc...etc.
I think my doctor and myself make the final decision to what weight is appropriate for me. It wasn't ok to comment on my weight before it definitely is not ok now either. I still have weight insecurities it's hard to get over those feelings and even though I know and feel great. I tend to go back to the shy don't look at me person who tended to hide. I love the opportunity this surgery has given me. I feel like I fit in for the first time in my life.
I'm trying to learn to embrace the new me with all the changes. Unfortunately I do feel anger at some of the major differences with people I have experienced. The person I was hasn't changed just the package. The differences in attention and opportunities. While appreciated can get annoying when in retrospect I think the old me would have never been given those chances. I never regret my decision getting sleeved was the best decision of my life. I just feel sad for my old self because I might be in a new package but I'm still the old me.
Happy journeys current and future sleevers.