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We are all adults here, I have a question, since they say no exercising after surgery, is having intercourse allowed the first week, because that's like working out.
They told me to wait 3 weeks... or until I felt up to it. Good question :-)
good question thanks!!
I thought I would answer from the guy's side. I was told to use common sense if it hurt. I think it was about two weeks.
I had to wait about 3 to 4 weeks but didn't until almost 2 cause i was slow to heal up.
My sleeve surgeon said 2 weeks, then I had gallbladder surgery at 12 days. That surgeon said 4 weeks! He said it was like exercise. Total- 6 weeks! Torture, but my husband was worried about hurting me. 30 pounds down at that point, worth it!
I was told two weeks and waited exactly two weeks. after that, I got my fiancé prego about two weeks after so.. be careful!! Surgery makes us fertile LOL
by night time the first week or 2 i was ready to crash. just take it slow though
My doctor said whenever I was up to it. Just make sure to be careful of your incisions. Find a position that doesn't pull on them.
So, we used um, alternate methods to keep hubby happy until I felt like it. I think it was about two weeks out when we tried and then I told him that he had to do all the work.
lol, Ok im sorry Im laughing at this question. When you said its like working out..Im thinking darn I need to work out daily then..
Thanks for the reply everyone I was just wondering when I would be able to do that to keep my man happy while im disabled lol.
I would wait 2-3 weeks. You have incisions, stiches, and a new gut, you don't want to cause any unnecessary pain, until you are better healed- But that is for INTERCOURSE, now for play time, you can do OTHER things, to not aggravate the wound sites. Be creative-
I waited five days and was fine:-)
Well I laught at my self for asking that question? Lol but you no what I mean lol!
I waited about a week but made sure my fiance did all the work LOL! It is all about how you are feeling. Once I got my drain out, things were much better for me.
I dont know about the waiting but i can tell you that the energy level is great..
Better to ask then to end up in pain. I was told to wait a couple weeks. Ended up waiting longer though cause I was so drained, no energy, so tired for about 6 weeks. Didn't wait that long but hubby did all the work, carefully. lol What a topic of conversation... hahaha