Anyone else HATE this being called an "elective" procedure?!?!
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, 06-20-2013 at 10:53 PM (1655 Views)
So today I found out that NO my school will not work with me in any way, shape, or form around me having surgery in Sep-Oct time frame. If I can't lift at least 50lbs, I'm not allowed to attend clinicals which means I'd miss 4 weeks (fairly certain that's what my doctor said was the minimum time for weight restrictions, rightfully so) & I'd be DROPPED from the program!!! SO APPARENTLY getting pregnant isn't considered elective (not sure how that's not free choice) & they'll work with those students, but not someone who desperately needs WLS. ARGHHHH!!!
Mid-conversation I let out a huge groan & asked her to just stop calling it an "elective" procedure, no matter what the school policy is. Said, "It's not like I'm getting a face lift. I medically need this surgery to combat a lot of medical issues. For this to be called 'elective' is just offensive." Anyone else find it TOTALLY ridiculous?! Obesity is now considered a DISEASE so I'm not sure how this surgery is considered any different than removing a cancerous lump that would otherwise kill you. That's actually a fairly an accurate description of how I view my traitorous stomach.
SOOOO I got super proactive & wormed my way into a bariatric seminar tomorrow at the VA. Called my counselor, who is also basically now my VA liaison from now on, informed her of what had happened & how it was severely stressing me out not knowing if the VA would be able to work with my school schedule. It's free medical care & rescheduling things can set you back MONTHS in my experience. Thankfully she's a super kind woman & got me into the class tomorrow. I shall be spending my night here at work drawing up a list of questions to satiate my anxiety.
Semi saddened though that even if I get good news that yes the VA will work around my schedule, it will mean I won't have surgery until December when I have a month off from school. Always awful putting off something you know deep down would benefit you to do YESTERDAY. Guess I'll just have to focus on the upside of having it at that time: it will be a nice turning point of a new chapter in my life to have it done just before New Years.