I'm ashamed
by
, 02-20-2013 at 10:28 AM (1342 Views)
About a month ago my bff asked me if she could move her wedding date up and i told here i refused to be the fattest person in her wedding. That somebody could take my place as her bridesmaid if she moved it any closer than it is already planned for. This was NOT a joke! I was serious as hell and started crying.At the time i felt she had no compassion for my feelings knowing my insecurities and the surgery, she knew i was planning was approaching.
My whole life i wanted to me a bridesmaid and havent had the chance yet. And when it finally gets here, I am humilated with my wight and how i look and feel.
But this past week we went on a couples trip over valentines day (a year to the day they are planning their wedding). They were talking about having a baby and having to wait until after the wedding. And she said she wanted another baby so bad she'd be willing to walk down the isle pregnant. Thats when I felt an enormous guilt and my heart sank in my chest.
I feel so horrible as a friend and will probably be apologizing soon but I was wondering if anybody else had a moment of ...."My weight made me do it"??