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Carlayavonne

  1. Just told my Dad....

    Hey all,

    I just told my dad about me having surgery, via email. This is a very sensitive subject between me and my father. He has always made me feel bad for being fat. He's given me the impression that he believes if you are fat, you're lazy and dont care about yourself. In short, he's damaged my self-esteem and made me feel less of a person for being over weight. I know he loves me, but he's so critical, I've declined chances to go visit him, for even if he didnt say anything ...
  2. The Old Fashion Way

    One of my best friends told me they don't think I should persue WLS. They said I should just DO it the old fashion way. I started thinking that I'll be 43 in 2 weeks, and I've been obese for 99.99999% of time since I turned 16 years old. Somehow I don't think the old fashioned way has done me much good. What do you think.

    I posted earlier today that I'm terrified of choosing to modify my body in order to lose weight.... but I'm terrified of what will happen if I don't. I already ...