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10 months post op with 7 week old baby

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I was 10 months post op yesterday and wanted to share that I am down 86.4 lbs as of this morning & my baby girl is doing well at a healthy 9lbs, 15oz!!!

This is something that I shared with another member, thought I would post it so others too can find some comfort if they are going through the same thing:


I don't even know where to begin because the path that I have traveled to get to where I am today has been a very bumpy one.

I started the research portion of my journey and sourced out many doctors before I decided on Dr.Almanza, from there I went to my family doctor and discussed it with her. I booked my gastric sleeve surgery for December 8, 2011 and away we went. My husband came with me which was huge support....I loved having him there!! I went through all my per-op blood work which included a pregnancy test...clearly it was much too early in the pregnancy because nothing showed up. I had my surgery successfully on December 8, and travelled home on the following Sunday.

About the 10 days later I was getting sick with some of the smells of food cooking in the house....I was getting worried that I was going to not be able to cook for my family anymore..I decided to go lay down and when I was laying down I had an "ah hah" moment...the last time I felt like this I was pregnant with my second daughter...panic sunk in and I was freaking out.

I drove myself to the store and bought a 2 pack of the clear blue easy pregnancy tests..I wasted no time...I quickly peed on a stick...waited a few minutes and there it was in digital writing "PREGNANT 3+" meaning I was more than 3 weeks!!!! Sooooo me being the freaked out crazed individual I decided to pee on the other stick....like seriously I was thinking I was going to get different results???? Nope it was the same of course!!! Then I really started freaking out!!!!!

I was so scared that I had done some irreversible damage to this innocent baby that I was now carrying without even knowing it. I felt like I was literally carrying the weight of the world on my shoulders. I couldn't eat, sleep, drink water, talk to anyone....I layed in bed in a comatose state for nearly a week....how I got through Christmas I will never know. I can't begin to tell you the tremendous amount of guilt I felt. There I was 34 years old the mother of 3 beautiful girls that I love with all my heart...my oldest daughter was in her first semester of college and I am having another baby??? Say what???? Yikes!!!

As the months went on and many doctors appointments & ultrasounds later we were given a 100% clean bill of health for our baby on March 5, 2012. Until that point we hadn't told anyone we were pregnant...the only people that knew were my husband, my best friend and of course myself.

This pregnancy was so bittersweet for me. I worried every single day until August 17, 2012 when I finally held her in my arms and saw her for myself....she really is perfect.

The journey was hard...I threw up every single day, sometimes multiple times a day. I will never know how it would be to heal properly after gastric sleeve as I was pregnant and am not sure if the things I experienced were related to the surgery or the pregnancy. What I can tell you is that I am healthy....and 87lbs lighter then I was last November and my baby is as healthy as can be!!!

I worried about nutrition everyday...worried that because I was throwing up so much that she wasn't getting enough to survive. At a specialist appointment I brought these concerns up and the doctor explained to me that I don't need to worry about that at all because baby will take all the nutrients that she needs first....that was a big contributor as to why I was so exhausted. I didn't gain one single pound the entire pregnancy...in fact I lost weight the entire time and yet I gave birth to a beautiful 7lb, 8oz, 21.5 inches long baby girl.

I hope that by sharing my experience with you I have answered any questions or doubts you may have had about pregnancy & the sleeve. If you have any specific questions please don't hesitate to ask me directly

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  1. PKnorr's Avatar
    amazing story! Congrats on your baby and continued success with weight loss
  2. mangomaid's Avatar
    Congratulations in your healthy baby and mother!
  3. bookwrmmom's Avatar
    Your story is amazing & I am sure will prove helpful to many other women who are still in the child-bearing stages of life!
  4. KMelendez's Avatar
    Wow, what an amazing life experience you just went through. I cannot even imagine the worry you went through at the same time as recovering from the surgery, and the conflict your body (and mind) went through between losing weight from the surgery and the natural weight gain from the growing baby in you! Congratulations on your healthy baby, your health, and your weight loss!
  5. pack89's Avatar
    OH MY!! You've had one heck of a year!! So thankful that both you and baby are healthy and happy!!
  6. Everdreamer's Avatar
    That is so wonderful!! Congratulations! I am 4 months out and at 40 years old, I would really like to get pregnant soon to have my first child.... apparently my weight was affecting my fertility. You give me hope so thank you!
  7. overweighttoolong's Avatar
    Wow! Congratulations!! Enjoy that new little one!
  8. niamh's Avatar
    Congratulations to you and your family!
  9. Finally Ready I think's Avatar
    Congrats to everyone! What a strong woman.
  10. toirelan's Avatar
    I was wondering how you were doing? I'm glad you and baby are doing well! I wish you continued success.
  11. My new life!'s Avatar
    God bless you, I'm sure that was so scarey for you, I am thankful that everything turned out so well, God is good, Congrats of everything!!!
  12. Sleeve2412's Avatar
    This is a bit encouraging.... I am 5 months post-op and 4 weeks pregnant... Wanted to get pregnant next year after losing my target weight but I still have about 30lbs to go and I am expecting...

    Now that I am assured that the baby will be healthy. what about the weight loss? does the weight come back again or will i lose or stay same?

    pls. advise
  13. JessRdz's Avatar
    makes me feel at ease reading your story. I am 8 mo post op and am about 10 weeks pregnant. I am glad to hear that i could have a healthy baby.