My journey: Are you sure this is what you want to do? YES, now please, stop asking!
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, 03-25-2014 at 07:28 PM (1458 Views)
My Weight Loss (surgery) journey started in November of 2013. From the moment I mentioned having surgery to one of my family members they have always responded with, "Are you sure this is what you want to do?" After almost 5 months of this response and my surgery less than two weeks away, I am feeling frustrated. I understand that this person feels that surgery, like any surgery, is a risk. They also feel that my 46lbs weight loss over the last year is great, which I agree, but I don't want it to stop there. I've also got Multiple Sclerosis, which at times keeps me from being able to work out for weeks on end. My biggest fear in life is one day ending up in a wheelchair like my grandmother, who also has M.S. This is one of the reasons why I want to fight it head on, get healthy now, enjoy my life, my husband and my young children now! This person doesn't seem to understand my frustration when they ask, "Are you sure this is what you want to do?" YES! I have never been more sure of anything in my life. So please, stop asking... Since deciding to have surgery back in November after my husband and I went to a WLS seminar, I've made such huge lifestyle changes. My husband's support has been amazing, but dealing with those who question my choices is stressful. Help!