Why is family and friends so negative, when u tell them u are going ahead with the surgery? The only support I have had has been from my boyfriend. I tried not to tell many because of the jugdemental vibe they are giving. I even had my friend who needs the surgery more than I do, say "I dont want the easy way out, thats a cop out way to battle weight." I wanted to say, "Look heffa, u need it more than me, u weighing in over 300." But I didnt, but I politely corrected her on her baffled theory of this being "the easy route" Nothing is easy, u still must properly diet right and exercise. My own sister had something negative to say. SMH the jealousy from those we are supposed to have support from is mind blowing, but I vow to take that criticism and strive for even better results, why she still standing here fat. Lol Im raw, but real with reality, if not now then why later? I just take as negative feedback when people cant do boss shit like u. Hope this inspires anyone with their dilemma on the sleeve.
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